It is so annoying when you meet a girl and think things are going great. A few texts later and she's disappeared and has fizzled out. Her loss right? But maybe she wasn't into you because your game is off. Read on to find out some easy ways to sharpen your game so she'll be begging for more.
Texting Mistake Number 1:
The first of the deadly mistakes guys make is confusing responses for attraction. Before you've even spoken to her on a first date after meeting, the ladies don't have any connection with you. Lets face facts here, you are probably not the only guy sending her messages. Your messages need to stand out by being short and sweet. Don't send her too many.
Infact the more messages you send to your date to 'get to know her' the more likely she will disappear before your meeting. Even if you are getting answers, she is probably just being polite.
The key in your game is to always say more with less. Whenever you're considering what to text, work out how to say it simpler, with less words. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, 'How's your day going?' or 'Hey, enjoying the warm weather?'. These texts do not work at bringing you any closer to a girl. Infact all they do is just just beg for a meaningless response. Ensure you never again waste texts and messages to her on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question- 'How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?'. If your answer is simply 'to get her to know her better,' stop where you are and just delete that message because it's not going to help you.
Mistake Number 2: Not Conveying That You Are Fun
Here are some signs you're NOT being fun. - Am I being stiff and formal "Hi. It was nice meeting you friday"…. (too stiff. too formal) - Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going? - Am I badering her with question? Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.
Mistake Number 3: Not Having An Original Texting Style
In order to stand out from the rest of the dating crowd you need your own individual style. What are the things you say to your mates and other people that are your little sayings? It should be that even if she lost her phone and got a new one, she could tell which messages were yours from the style alone.
Mistake Number 4: Having Long Text Message Conversations
Text conversations are not like actual conversations. Texting should be cliff notes of a normal conversation. Meaning you've got to leave out the formalities. The longer the text message conversations get, the more chance to mess things up or run into akward confusion. Everytime you pick up the phone, jump right into the good stuff. Start with anectdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.
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