quarta-feira, 20 de fevereiro de 2013

My Child Has No Self-Discipline, Responsibility or Focus...Except for Focus on Their Cells or iPads!

It's simply another active day in a typical North American household at around five o'clock in the afternoon and Mom is walking in the door after a long day at work to see her two teens and tweens sitting around on the couch enjoying a movie. There are plates all over the kitchen tables, empty chip bags on the dining room table, and their school bags are all simply dropped near the front door. Mother is either accustomed to it, in denial of it, or she is about to blow. In any case, this is not a situation that will have a happy ending no matter what you opt to do for discipline. I mean seriously, I know this would not take place in your family, but if it did, you would need to put your foot down, right?

Below are 3 Positive Parenting Solutions You Can Use that Will Guarantee Your Children and Teenagers Self-Discipline, Responsibility and Focus.

1. Know the Reward for your child or teenager when they do a good job on their chores at home. Yes, it is your house with your rules and if you like what is going on right now with your child then keep doing exactly what you're doing. If you would prefer to see more positive outcomes with your children or teen, you will start to acknowledge and utilize what is referred to as their fuel, and your ammunition, their "why." Their why is there to help your child be inspired to finish their tasks and find out essential life skills. You can constantly see to it that you have the proper motivator by paying attention to exactly what they ask you for and by paying attention to which things are crucial to them.

2. Pre-frame your expectations with your child or teenager, either the night before or in the morning. Have a five minute conversation with your children about what your arrangement is with them. Ensure they comprehend that when they do this, this and this, they then earn dinner, or they then earn a great dinner, or they then earn a quite wonderful dinner. Confirm this by asking them to duplicate back to you what the arrangement is. Yes, you have to provide basic food however you don't need to supply butter on the veggies, or steak with their salad and bread, because, well, quite simply, that is certainly a benefit. Benefits are earned in three areas: bare minimum, average and impressive. Superior work earns impressive dinner!!!

3. Make sure you have taken the time to teach them step-by-step the best ways to do every job you ask of your kchildren; teach them over and over again till they finish the job to your standards. Do not assume your child knows what you imply when you ask them to clean their bedroom, load the dishwashing machine or even put their clothes in the laundry container.

4. Adhere to your part of the contract by making them earn their privileges in their life.

Stay with these easy however efficient favorable parenting techniques and you will see a favorable outcome with your children or teen whenever you have a task to be done. This works!

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